No. You can come in, sit down, take it all in, and leave, and no one will single you out, ask you to stand, press you for money, or push you to join, be baptized, or come back. Deciding to follow Jesus is the most important choice a person makes, and pressure has no place in it.
Many will ask this because they’ve had uncomfortable experiences at other churches. Being singled out after a service, asked to stand before the congregation, or made to feel pressured into making a decision, are understandable concerns. So, here’s what you can expect at Memorial Church of Christ.
You Won’t Be Pressured to Give
A collection is taken during the service, but it isn’t for visitors. The Apostle Paul’s instruction about giving was written to members of the church: “On the first day of every week, each of you is to put something aside and store it up, as he may prosper” (). As our guest, you’re not expected to put anything in the plate. When it reaches you, you can simply pass it to the next person. No one will think anything of it.
You Won’t Be Pressured to Respond
Near the end of the sermon, the preacher offers what we call the invitation. The congregation stands to sing while anyone who wishes may come to the front to ask about baptism or request prayers. That invitation is extended to anyone who chooses to respond; it isn’t an expectation placed on visitors. You’re welcome to stand during the song and remain right where you are.
You Won’t Be Pressured to Join or Come Back
There’s no membership pitch, nothing to sign, and no closing sales presentation at the door. You may be offered a visitor’s card, but completing it is entirely your choice. If you’d rather simply observe the service and leave afterward, you’re welcome to do that.
Will Anyone Talk to Me?
Most likely, yes. Many here at Memorial will probably introduce themselves, shake your hand, and tell you they’re glad you came. If someone offers to answer your questions or study the Bible with you, it’s an invitation, never an obligation.
Will Someone Follow Up Afterward?
If you choose to leave your contact information, someone may reach out to thank you for visiting or ask whether you have any questions. If you’d rather not be contacted, simply leave the card blank or let us know. We’ll gladly respect your wishes.
Why We Won’t Pressure You
This is more than good manners; it’s a matter of conviction. We want people to build their faith on God’s Word, not on pressure. The Bereans were called noble because they “received the word with all eagerness, examining the Scriptures daily to see if these things were so” (). We encourage every visitor to do the same. Read the Bible, examine what you hear, and decide for yourself whether it is true. That’s the kind of faith the New Testament describes.
You’re Welcome Here
If you’re looking for clear, honest teaching and a place where truth meets life, that’s what you’ll find at Memorial Church of Christ. Come as a guest, ask your questions, and let God’s Word guide your decisions.
Plan your visit: /plan-your-visit/ — we’d love to welcome you.
If you’d like to know what the Bible says about being saved, start here: /how-to-be-saved/.
When we meet:
- Sunday: Bible Class 9:00 am · Worship 10:00 am · Worship 6:00 pm
- Wednesday: Bible Class 7:00 pm